Fidelity

Men and women have co-existed for millions of years- of course none of these men and women have really been able to survive very long. We still have men and women- they are not the same ones though. So really men and women haven’t co-existed for millions of years.

We are getting better at it though- the average life expectancy of both men and women has risen- this is mainly because we are now better at dealing with the opposite sex.

There are a lot of self-help books around to help on relationship issues but don’t listen to those books- books like ones written by Doctor Phil or something like “Men are from mars, women are from Venus” – you want to have a successful relationship- Stop comparing your partner to aliens- maybe they don’t like being called- non human. Stop spending time reading books about relationships and spend time on the relationship- and most importantly do not take advice from a MAN who pretends he is Oprah and talks about incest on television for a living.

I understand some people do need help with their relationships- so this post will help you do that without having to read an entire book- These are the basics

Number one- communication

It is important to be on MSN online 24/7. I cannot stress this enough- BE ONLINE. Many a times people find it difficult to tell their partner something- be it out of guilt, embarrassment or just not knowing how to bring the subject-up, this is where you use the personal message setting on your MSN- to send subtle message-.

One must always communicate the love they have for their partners and nothing says intimacy more than two smiley faced emoticons- hugging each other.

Let us take this moment to thank the Love guru- bill gates and MSN.

To have an healthy relationship- keep no secrets from each other- but the real secret for a really healthy relationship is to hide your secrets extremely well.

Women like to talk about their problems- and men don’t. This leads to misunderstandings- The girl thinks the man is not trusting her with his problems the man is thinking maybe if she shut up she wouldn’t have so many problems.

There is a solution to this problem- women, make your problem more appealing to men. For example say you have a fight with your best friend and you want to talk about your feelings to your partner- this is what you need to do, Add sex into the story- curse as much as possible, put in some nudity- cat fights are always interesting- a car chase or two is highly recommended- and a few things blowing up, followed by some more sex. You have got the total and complete attention of the man.

I am actually going to stop typing now- but I am not done- this post will be continued when I next update the Blog.